How Do I Find My G-Spot?

Ah yes, the elusive G-spot. How do you go about finding it (if you haven’t found it already)? Physically speaking the g-spot is located about two inches inside the vagina on the same side as the belly. It is not an “easy-button” as its name might suggest, rather a bit of tissue that becomes engorged with blood (much like a woman’s clitoris or man’s penis) when aroused. Because of this, it is much easier to find the more aroused a woman is.

It is possible for a woman to feel for her own G-spot using her fingers by putting her finger(s) in her vagina and curving them in and up towards her belly. The tissue feels bumpy in contrast to the smooth vaginal walls, so you can feel for this bumpiness when trying to find it. When feeling for the g-spot, remember that it is only about two inches inside the vagina.

What does a g-spot orgasm or g-gasm feel like? Stimulating the G-spot creates different sensations for every woman. Some describe it as creating an intense sexual stimulation that can lead to very intense orgasms; others describe it as feeling like you have to pee, while others may not feel any additional sensation at all. Feeling like you have to pee is normal as the G-spot tissue is located along the course of the urethra that leads to the bladder. Because everyone’s body is different, experimentation is the key when searching for and stimulating the G-spot. Don’t get frustrated if the first few attempts are not ecstasy inducing. The important thing is that you are learning about your body and if you and your partner are embarking on this quest together, that you are communicating and experimenting together. Have fun and relax!

You can use your fingers to stimulate the G-spot, however some women find that their arms or fingers are too short to do this comfortably. In that case a curved vibrator designed specifically for g-spot stimulation is ideal. Even if you are able to reach your g-spot, most women report that experimenting with an adult toy is helpful, fun, and satisfying. Sexual positions that most often stimulate the G-spot are those where the penis is angled so that it can hit the anterior wall of the vagina where the G-spot is located. These positions include: “Doggie style” (man from behind), “Butterfly” (man and woman facing each other, woman’s legs on man’s shoulders), and “Cowgirl” (woman on top of man). There are just a few of the more popular sexual positions that are good for G-spot stimulation—have fun and experiment and find the ones that work best for you!