69 Sex Position

The 69 sex position is probably one of the most known sexual positions out there, but believe it or not, many people don’t quite understand how it works. This fun and exciting position involves two people performing oral sex on each other simultaneously. Performing oral sex on your partner while having oral sex performed on yourself can be the ultimate sensory experience!

There are several different sex positions couples can experiment with that are all technically the sixty-nine position, they are just variations on who’s on top and at what angle . To perform oral sex in the 69 position, one person is usually laying on top of the other, bellies together, with one person’s head at the other’s feet, and vice versa—this puts each person’s face at just the right spot to perform oral sex on the other person. In this head-to-toe position, it is quite easy to pay special attention to the other person’s “pleasure center”. The 69 position, however, may not be very comfortable for couples where there is a large height disparity!

Generally, the man is on the bottom of this arrangement so the woman can control how far the man’s penis goes into her mouth when she is performing fellatio. You can have the man on top, however, in this position the man must be careful with his thrusting movements when his penis is in the woman’s mouth so as not to gag her.

If it isn’t comfortable for one person to lie directly on top of the other you can have the person on top rest on their elbows. Or, you can perform 69 on your sides, with one leg raised. In this position you can even rest your head on your partners’ thigh for neck support. Many couples find this position more comfortable than top and bottom positioning.

If you are strong of arm and willing to try something more acrobatic, the man can hold the woman upside down while in a kneeling or standing position.

When in the 69 position, you have the opportunity to explore all of your partner’s sensitive bits. Using your mouth is an excellent way to explore, but don’t forget about your hands! Stroke your partner’s inner thighs while kissing with your mouth. Lightly rub their legs and buttocks. Use your hands to stroke his penis while kissing all around, or use your finger(s) inside your partner’s vagina as you gently suck her clitoris… just a few ideas—you can take it from here!

The anus is also easily accessed in this position and can add another level of stimulation by exploring with your fingers or even your mouth. If you feel uncomfortable exploring with your mouth, but are interested, you can shower together before to make sure that you are both extra clean. If you are still uncomfortable, use your fingers instead. Even a little touching around the anus can heighten sexual stimulation.

With the 69 position you have a great opportunity to be intimate on a level that other positions may not offer and as a bonus you get to satisfy each other at the same time!