Small Penis? Sex Positions &Techniques for Great SexTruth be told, penis size is not the first quality a woman looks for in a man. However, men tend to judge each other by their size—assuming that those with large penises are more powerful and those with small penises are somehow inadequate. (Sure, your boss is a jerk, but you would feel better knowing that he has a small penis, right?!)
What is a small penis? Technically speaking, how is one defined? “Mine is smaller than theirs” doesn’t mean it’s small, you may just be hanging with a large crowd. There are many different types of penises, some longer, some thicker around, some are straight, some are curved… Women, too, have genitalia of different sizes and shapes, and may prefer a smaller penis to a larger one!
Generally one measure’s penis size while erect, with multiple measurements taken at different times so you can get an average. Average erect penis length for adult men is between 5 to 5.5” long. Length of the flaccid penis does not directly correspond to the length of the erect penis—so if your penis is shorter while flaccid than everyone else’s in the locker room, it doesn’t necessarily mean yours is shorter when erect! Average adult penis girth is from 4.5 to 5.5 inches around.
When it comes to sexual performance, size doesn’t matter as long as you are satisfying your partner. As you have probably heard, it’s not the size of the ship (penis), but the motion of the ocean (how you use it!). There are other ways to fulfill your partner’s sexual needs besides penis length: making her feel special and sexually satisfied. Fabulous foreplay, expertly done cunnilingus, using your hands or an adult toy… If you feel somehow that your penis is not long enough to satisfy your partner you should try those things first, and if that doesn’t satisfy, then try these positions for deeper penetration and, possibly, greater stimulation:
Doggy Style – This position allows you to penetrate deeper into the woman’s vagina. It is also a great way to target her G-spot, which is only 1-2 inches inside her vagina and on the same side as her belly. Doggy style allows you to angle your penis perfectly to stimulate the G-spot no matter what length your penis!
Deck Chair - She lies on her back and raises her legs with her knees to her chest, man on top. This position allows for deeper penetration—even more so if you put her legs over your shoulders and then hold her legs out in a V.
Missionary – with her pelvis angled up with a pillow – Another position that allows deeper penetration. This is a good one to try if you aren’t as flexible as the Deck Chair position requires.
Size is not most important part of a sexual relationship. Remember that the clitoris is on the outside of the vagina, time and attention given to it can greatly increase the satisfaction of your partner! If your partner is more aroused by targeted G-spot stimulation, then the Doggy Style position, your fingers, and even using some fun adult toys, including penis sheaths that add girth, can bring excellent satisfaction. Work with what you have and become an expert at it! |