Roadmap to a Woman's Body

Let’s face it guys, women are pretty much a mystery. We don’t get the concepts of window shopping or cleaning up the house any more than absolutely necessary. This article won’t even attempt to make sense of the need for 50 pairs of shoes or Lifetime TV movies. Fortunately, with the help of doctors and sexuality experts, we can figure what gets a stimulates and excites a lady physically and we know from experience that when she is happy, our lives are much, much better.

There are two happy places you want to focus on in a woman’s nether-region. The first is the clitoris, which is located near the top of the vagina and usually tucked away within her vaginal lips. The actual size and shape can vary, but it’s smooth and generally a little larger than the size of a pencil eraser. Much like the head of penis, the clitoris can be very sensitive to the touch, so it’s a good idea to stimulate the clitoris in a slow and gentle way. A hint of moisture or personal lubricant makes the experience more pleasurable for most women as well. In addition to digital stimulation, many women enjoy oral attention to the clitoris. Experimenting with a combination of mouth and tongue can deliver an unbearably satisfying result for your lady. In some positions of intercourse, it’s also possible for your penis to come in contact with her clitoris. With a little bit of practice and conversation, this technique can bring considerable enjoyment as well. The two most important things to remember about the clitoris are 1) take it nice and easy and 2) talk about your technique with your partner. The clitoris is very sensitive and requires the proper care and attention in order provide a great experience for your partner.

Within the woman’s vagina is the much-discussed, obsessed over G-Spot. The G-Spot is a small gland that is noticeably harder to the touch than the surrounding environment. The best way access and excite the G-Spot and its proud owner is by facing your partner and gradually inserting one of your long fingers deeply into the vagina. Once your finger(s) is inserted, bend it into the shape of a comma and point toward her belly button. You’re likely to come in contact with the G-Spot. Because it’s made of similar stuff, the G-Spot will mirror the penis by enlarging during excitement and stimulation. That makes it easier to find and satisfy. From a technique standpoint, some experimentation and conversation are always advisable, but generally a gentle, but firm stroking pressure is appreciated by many women. Some ladies find that a persistent tapping motion does the trick. Others require a little more physical pressure. Still others respond to a simultaneous caress outside their vagina in the area just above the G-Spot. And … some ladies don’t find digital stimulation enjoyable at all. Then there’s also the option of penis-to-G-Spot contact. The traditional missionary position does not lend itself easily to such ecstasy, but with a woman in a top position or coupling in doggy style makes this contact much more likely. Even if your lady isn’t thrilled when your fingers do the walking, there’s a good chance that these types of intercourse will yield as great deal of pleasure. Of course, some ladies have also been known to take matter and motors into their own hands and that’s ok too. The better she knows her body, the more you can learn – see if she will let you man the controls of the vibrator to stimulate her g-spot.

So the good news in all of this is that even if we can’t connect with romance novels or chick flicks, ladies have some built-in equipment that we can make complete sense of, if we’re willing to invest the time and effort. And if we get good at communicating with our ladies’ bodies, the rest of the relationship will be a lot more enjoyable.