The Top 20 Tips to Spice Up Your Love Life

Sometimes you need an idea to jump start your sex life. Here are a few simple ideas that you and your partner can do to add excitement or passion to your love life. Try one idea or try them all. Just trying one can lead to a more interesting and intimate relationship between you and your partner so have fun and enjoy!

• Put on some racy underwear - Ever think about having sex at night only to feel too tired when you finally get to bed? Try putting on some racy underwear to keep yourself motivated for sex.
• Commit verbally - Tell him what you plan to do to him when you both get home or when the kids go to bed. That way the sexual tension can build between you!
• Do a strip tease – It’s a fun way to get in the mood and start things on a different note than the usual foreplay. Not sure what to do, try a Stripper Kit. It has everything you need to give him a performance to remember.
• Turn off the TV and turn on a little music – Let your tensions from the day melt away with a little mood music—who knows, this may lead to #3!
• Delay touching – Don’t go straight for the target, touch and caress your partner’s body everywhere but ‘there’. You’ll drive him/her crazy and heighten the pleasure when you finally get there.
• Play with your food – Make your partner a special dinner that you can feed to each other. You can even try body paints made out of chocolate or honey for dessert!
• Dress up – Even when you aren’t going out, dressing up can make you feel good and knowing that it’s going to all come off soon can make you feel randy! Don’t forget the heels!
• Speaking of heels – Even if you don’t dress up, wearing high heels in the bedroom, or around the house, can really turn up the heat!
• Join your partner in the shower – What better way to heat things up than getting close in the shower? Start by lathering each other up and see where things go from there!
• Talk dirty – whispering sweet nothings into your partner’s ear—especially when you’re out in public—can fan the flames for when you can be alone together.
• Take it outside – Grab your blanket and go for a hike in the woods or some other outdoor area where you (probably) won’t get caught and do it au-naturale! That back porch is good for more than grilling!
• Take it public – “Doing it” somewhere you probably shouldn’t can get anyone’s heart racing. Try a restroom stall or a changing room—the possibilities are endless!
• Take it home – Go visit your in-laws and do it in your partner’s childhood bedroom! You can imagine that you are teenagers again!
• Take it somewhere else – Just having sex in another part of the house where you don’t normally have sex is exciting. Have sex in the kitchen, in the laundry room, or even the living room.
• Roleplay – Start your night at a bar and act like you are just meeting for the first time. Dress up and have fun with it!
• Really roleplay – Rent some costumes from the local costume shop. You could try Princess Lea and Han Solo or Robin Hood and Maid Marrian. Go together to choose your costumes and have fun with it!
• Play with toys – Introducing a toy (or new toy) into the bedroom can be fun and exciting, especially if you go shopping for one together! And you don’t have to go to a physical store, shop online at somewhere like Sinclair Institute. just get on the computer! You’ll have so much fun selecting one you’ll heat things up before your new toy even arrives in the mail!
• Try a little oil – Massage oils can really help to heat things up—especially the ones that literally heat up on contact. Just make sure if you have an erotic massage planned that you use an oil that is compatible with “private parts”.
• Try an adult game – Adult games can be helpful since they take the pressure off of you by giving you new and fun ideas for things you might not try on your own...
• Kiss! – Kissing your partner can heat things up. Kiss your partner longer than you normally would. Enjoy a long embrace. Just keeping it simple sometimes is all you need!