Why You Shouldn't Stop Masturbating
PUBLISHED BY:Dr. Lori Buckley
Question: I am 53 and currently single. I've been divorced for over 10 years. I seem to have a high sex drive and often resort to masturbation to relieve myself. Is this normal? I would much prefer a partner but it seems hard to find the right one. I've had numerous dates and but haven't had a steady girlfriend in sometime.
Thanks,
DJ
Dr. Lori's Answer: Masturbation is not only "normal", it's healthy. There is truth to the saying if you don't use it, you'll lose it. And besides, masturbation is a wonderful thing: what else feels so good, is good for you, is legal and costs nothing? It is also healthier to go it alone than settle with the wrong partner due to sexual frustration. And, playing with yourself doesn’t have to end when you find a partner. Many men and women continue to Jack (or Jill) off when in a relationship. Why stop a good thing? If you love oranges, you wouldn't give up eating them just because peaches are in season.
Dr. Lori Buckley is a licensed clinical psychologist and an (AASECT) certified sex therapist. We know that there are a lot of people who have questions about all kinds of sexual things, so we teamed up with Dr. Lori to answer your questions.
