Sinclair Sex Basics: Using A Male Masturbator

Guys, if you're spending an evening home alone, make it an exciting one with a masturbator. And if you're not alone? Lots of couples add excitement and variety to their sex play with a masturbator, with women reporting that they love watching their men get turned on before intercourse or  have orgasms while using one. Many women like to use the masturbator on their lovers!

Today's masturbators come in a wealth of designs and materials that look and feel sensationally real. From the smallest hand-held stroker to the life-sized, detailed, hand-painted sex toys molded from real adult stars, to the motorized masturbators that vibrate you to bliss, well-made masturbators are designed for pure orgasmic joy.

It's important to start your masturbation session with lots of lube. Depending on the stroker's material, you'll want to choose between water-based and silicone. Water-based gives you an easier clean-up, but silicone is slicker and lasts longer.

Slide your lubricated penis into the opening of the masturbator slowly, getting the feel of it. Most masturbators are textured inside, and this is something you want to enjoy. Also, going slowly will let you know whether you like the feel of this particular toy. If you do, keep stroking at whatever pace you like towards your orgasm. Take your time: the great thing about masturbation is that you have only yourself to please!

If you like to watch adult movies while you masturbate, that's fine. But once in a while, turn it off and take time to feel what's happening to your body. Move a little: thrust they way you do when you're having sex, go slower, go faster and stretch out the sensations. Bring your testicles into the action: give them a gentle tug, which can actually delay your orgasm.

For more variety, try changing your position from your usual position when masturbating. A lot of this depends on the size and shape of the masturbator, but you can lie on your back or your stomach,  or try a sitting or standing position.

This is where the design of your masturbator is important. Basically, strokers are open-ended or close-ended. Those that are closed offer more suction and sensation; open-ended are easier to clean. If you use an open-ended masturbator, you can improve the suction by simply holding your finger over the open end. Clean close-ended strokers by turning them inside out.

Masturbators also vary in cost, but no matter what design you choose from the many models available, there are a few basic things where you don't want to skimp.

• • Choose the best materials. You have more choices than ever in materials: Ultra Realistic Material, CyberSkin®, RealSkin, jelly, silicone, rubber and other realistic-feeling materials. The choice is up to you. Experiment and find your favorite.

• • Look for a masturbator with thicker walls. The better made the stroker is, the thicker the walls will be, and the more real the experience will feel. With thicker walls, you don't feel your hand gripping the stroker. Some masturbators, like the popular Fleshlight, are enclosed in a plastic sleeve for just this reason.

Male masturbators, like everything connected with good sex, are a personal choice. Experiment, and find the one that sends you over the moon!

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